• Inspiration The Becoming

    On Loving Spoilers

    “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding” – Proverbs 3: 5 Between office work and trying to live my “why”, I always find time to…

    June 19, 2016
  • RantsByGbemi

    The Body Issue: The Case for Sexy

    I say if I’m beautiful. I say if I’m strong. You will not determine my story — I will. I will speak and share and love and I will never apologize to the frightened…

    June 9, 2016
  • The Becoming

    Free Falling

    Never been one to not try to be in control of my own life, or emotions or anything even. But if I’ve learned anything this year, it’s that Love is Trust. Everything I held…

    June 1, 2016
  • Relationships The Becoming

    On Letting Go

    “It is beautiful beneath the sea, but if you stay too long you’ll drown” – The Three-Eyed Raven, Game of Thrones So if you’re like me and your pretend face is really good, and…

    May 4, 2016
  • The Becoming

    On Staying Right in the Middle

    There’s a middle, and anyone who has been severely depressed and has had to take mood stabilizers would know this. Because you’re trying not to feel the valley lows, you become a bit numb…

    April 30, 2016
  • Inspiration The Becoming

    Stay Here With Me

    When rejection makes you do a double take on your self-esteem, remember the gifts that you have to offer the world – Gbemisola Ero-Phillips   My darling, you’ve been looking back way too long. Do…

    April 29, 2016
  • Relationships

    Love in the Time of Internet

    I wanted to title this “The commodification of love” but I don’t know if that quite captures it. So I played with Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s Love in the Time of Cholera. Sometimes it does…

    April 27, 2016
  • Relationships

    Why am I still single?

     Short Answer: I’m a bad person. Long Answer: I’m a really really bad person. I’ve come a long way from thinking I’m a really nice person and people should look inwards to my beautiful…

    April 23, 2016