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    On Letting Go

    May 4, 2016

    “It is beautiful beneath the sea, but if you stay too long you’ll drown” – The Three-Eyed Raven, Game of Thrones So if you’re like me and your pretend face is really good, and your fall-back game is strong, you can move on in the blink of an eye. But the problem is a lot of times I can move on without letting go. I only just learned that moving on and letting go are two entirely different experiences. (Of…

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    Love in the Time of Internet

    I wanted to title this “The commodification of love” but I don’t know if that quite captures it. So I played with Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s Love in the Time of Cholera. Sometimes it does…

    April 27, 2016
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    Why am I still single?

     Short Answer: I’m a bad person. Long Answer: I’m a really really bad person. I’ve come a long way from thinking I’m a really nice person and people should look inwards to my beautiful…

    April 23, 2016
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    Much ado about $25 and conversation

    Some background: I live alone. Every once in a while I have a friend over, but I’m not great sport sometimes. I enjoy contemplating life and beauty in silence. I will be in a…

    April 17, 2016
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    Can We Change the Conversation?

    “You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better”- Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and…

    April 16, 2016